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How to Talk With Your Kids About the Tough Topics |
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Research shows that children who are comfortable speaking to their parents about sex, alcohol and drugs delay having sex and are less likely to abuse drugs and alcohol. Yet tackling these topics with one’s children can seem daunting and, as the kids would say, “awkward!” However, children are being exposed to the issues of sex, drugs, alcohol, dating violence, and dating relationships at an earlier and earlier age through the media and their peers. We know they are learning about it, and parents need to be able to ensure that their voices are heard on the issues as well. Parents need to share their opinions, values and, yes, rules, while keeping the door open for honest communication.
Presentation covers:
• How to incorporate your own values in the conversation
• How to handle the really tough questions, including when your child asks you
about your experience!
• What information is age appropriate for your child
• When to start the conversations
• How to start the conversations
• The importance of keeping communication open
And For Parents of Teens:
Communicating Your Values on the Tough Topics
Teens have been exposed to the issues of sex, drugs, alcohol, dating violence, and dating relationships through the media and their peers for many years. Have your values on these issues been adequately heard? Or has all your teen heard is “Don’t do it!” When your teen leaves for college, they will be making decisions without your oversight or household rules. How can you make sure that your values are heard and understood? How do you set rules while keeping the door open for honest communication? Research shows that children who are comfortable speaking to their parents about sex, alcohol and drugs delay having sex and are less likely to abuse drugs and alcohol.
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